Color of the day: Blue Incense of the day: Ivy First, choose those in the spirit world that you would like to invite. Then set the table for you, any living guest(s) who would like to attend, and your spirit-world guest(s). If possible, serve something the spirit guest(s) enjoyed during their lifetime. If living guests are present, dish out food for each other rather than serving yourselves. Also dish out food for the spirit guests. Dine by candlelight, and be sure not to speak or make noise throughout the duration of the meal. |