Color of the day: Topaz Incense of the day: Bay laurel If we Pagans wish to mark such a loss, one idea is to make a mourning braid, either in your own hair or out of black cording or fabric. If you choose to do the braid in your hair, you may want to consult a professional for assistance in dyeing a lock of it black without staining your skin or clothing. For a cloth braid, if possible, cut a few strips from a black garment that once belonged to your loved one, or you can purchase and use black cloth or cording. As you braid the pieces together, think about your loss. There is often a threefold path involved. Say whatever you need to, and if you cry, put the tears into the braid. Wear the braid under or over your clothes for as long as you feel is necessary, and be blessed. |