Dating can be such a tricky game. It too often seems that each sex is innately wired to drive the other a mild form of crazy. Too often, indirect communication and clever one-upsmanship are common ways in which men and women communicate. How often are wonderful first dates never followed up on? How often do women call their friends to help them decipher what a man "really" means? On top of all that, there's the little question of your own level of interest to contend with when it comes to dating. Is he really the potential partner worth fussing about? When a lot of the people you know are married, does it become difficult to trust your own instincts? Servet Hasan's new book Tune

You do a magick ritual, spell, technique, etc., and to your amazement (or maybe not) it works. In fact, it works very well. So you mark this in your magickal journal as a method you can use to achieve successful results. Each time you use the technique it's successful. Woo-hoo! This is something that works. So you use this method repeatedly. You don't notice that the degree of success slowly decreases. In fact, you may be puzzled when you notice that this technique—a magickal system that had worked so well—isn't working at all. How can this happen? In a word, the answer is probably "focus." When you do something repeatedly, it is common for it to become a habit. You do the