As I look back over the years, I've received and given lots and lots of gifts. Some have been as simple as hand-made cards. Others, to loved ones, have been rather expensive. When you give a gift you usually hope that the person who receives it will like it enough to keep. You hope that they'll enjoy it, use, it, be happy with it, and that it serves as a reminder that you care. But no matter how much effort you put into it, there's always a chance that the recipient either won't want it or will need to give it away, sell it or discard it. As far as I can tell there is only one gift that cannot be returned: wisdom. Unfortunately, wisdom cannot be given. Wisdom results from a combination