Here is a technique that can help you prepare for any potentially sticky holiday interactions. The holidays can be a stressful time, with emotions and expectations running high. If your goal is to at least minimize drama and at most take advantage of the "goodwill to all" and heal relationships, it helps to understand the needs and/or desires of both parties involved. You may have more than one person you want information about, so do this technique for each relationship. Think about the person you want to create lack of drama or peace with. Think about their characteristics as regards your relationship with them. Think about yourself and what you bring to the relationship. Try to be as