The Empress in Love
Tarot in Love: Consulting the Cards in Matters of the Heart by Elliot Adam
Elliot Adam, author of the well-loved Fearless Tarot, now guides us through one of the most complex human emotions: love. From the hilarious and completely relatable opening pages Elliot takes our hand reassuringly has he reveals the secrets of love in the cards.
He’s taken a few extraordinary approaches to the material.
First, he gives equal attention to the reversed meanings of the cards, a rare if not unique occurrence. This puts them on equal footing instead of regulating them to the “less than” pile. Second, in addition to the general meaning of each card, he provides meanings for the cards in the areas of: New Relationship, Long-term Partnership, Intimacy, Seeking Romance, Desires for both upright and reversed.
Let’s see what Elliot has to say about the upright version of the Empress.
The Empress
When it comes to matters of the heart, the Empress is in her element. She (or he) is instinctively nurturing and affectionate. Empress people also embrace the feminine side of their nature, no matter their gender. The Empress possesses an unmatched ability to create soothing, reassuring environments where love can flourish. She understands the magic of an enchanted evening and will expose her partner to the finest things in life. Empress personalities love to pamper their mates with thoughtful little presents and sumptuous meals. They also make skilled chefs. In a love reading, the Empress will also represent someone who is extremely devoted to whoever she considers to be her family. A sure way to turn off an Empress personality is to criticize her family, friends, or community. At her best, the Empress is kind, nurturing, loving, giving, and compassionate. At her worst the Empress can be smothering, needy, or a doormat.
In a Love Reading:
New Relationship
The Empress archetype is a true romantic and cherishes the courtship phase of a relationship for as long as possible. Her archetype thrives on romance. Handwritten notes of affection, and decadent meals lovingly prepared will capture her (or his) heart. The more chivalrous you are in the early part of the relationship, the better.
Long Term Partnership
The Empress oversees nurturing, growth, and deepening commitment in relationships. It may be time to give birth to new conditions, such as buying a new home, creating new business, or even expanding your family through children or even pets. When the Empress appears, your relationship is likely entering a new cycle of love, success, and plenty.
Intimacy
The Empress adores indulging in the pleasures of the senses. As the Great Mother of the tarot, the Empress is also an extremely fertile card. The appearance of the Empress is a fortuitous sign if you are thinking of starting a family. If you are able capable of having children and don’t want a family now, take your necessary precautions!
Seeking Romance
The Empress is a sensuous archetype and will encourage you to flirt and freely express your romantic nature. It may also be time to connect with the Goddess of Love and Beauty within. Indulge in life’s delights. The Empress is a welcome guide toward your heart’s bliss.
Desires
The Empress archetype desires beauty, peace, romance, and harmony. She represents a person who maintains extremely high standards. Never be crude, rude, or trashy with an Empress personality. She is a class act who is repelled by vulgarity. The Empress can also symbolize a desire to begin a family or to have children.
