|Color of the day: White
Incense of the day: Dill
If any of your recent romantic partnerships were fraught with negativity and bitterness and ended with regret, use this ritual to attract a mate who is right for you and likely to be your soulmate. Apply intuition and common sense when dating new people. Use logic rather than letting the heart run amuck. Resist the temptation to fall head over heels until you've had a chance to get to know the person. A compatible partner is not one who causes heartache, harm, or provocation. Write down on a piece of paper a personal affirmation about not falling for troublesome types with unusually fiery temperaments, self-serving tendencies, and a history of abusiveness. Be concise with your wording, and when you are satisfied cut nine squares from a large piece of paper. Write the same affirmation on each piece. Every evening, dab basil oil on the four corners of the paper and burn it at your altar on a heat-proof dish. Bury the remains a few miles away from your home.