|Sometimes lovers experience a decrease in communication, which can intensify conflicts. To increase communication between you and your romantic partner, create a quiet place where you both feel comfortable. Line the place with pillows and blankets, and decorate it with ribbons, rose petals, or sensual items. Both of you should prepare separately by taking a bath, meditating, or listening to some soothing music. Then, make yourselves comfortable in the space, and place a pink or white candle between you. Turn the lights out, and gaze into each others' eyes over the candle. After a few minutes, begin to talk about what you value in each other, and what conflicts need resolution. When finished, snuff out the candle and save it for the next time you need this spell.