People tend to think of Valentine's Day as a holiday for couples, but it celebrates love in general, too. That includes the love you have for yourself. Thus, it's possible to celebrate Valentine's Day even if you aren't part of a romantic relationship or can't spend the day with the person you love. Do loving things for yourself today. Read a favorite book or watch a movie about self-discovery. Buy yourself something luxurious to wear. Take yourself out to dinner. Love your body with a spa day or something else you find relaxing.

For this spell, you'll need a white vase and a purple flower, such as tulip, carnation, or pansy. Put the vase on your altar and say:

The first love is love of the self.

Add the flower and say:

For only when you love yourself

can you love others.

Lean forward and smell the flower. Finish with this:

I will remember to love myself, no matter who else I may also love.